Change Your Mind, Change Your Life
Practical Yoga Tools for Making Life (and Work) a Joyful Ride – for Kids, Families, and You
By Gopala Amir Yaffa
We’ve already felt the goodness of yoga flowing through our bodies — stretching out in yoga poses, calming the breath, melting into deep relaxation, and nourishing ourselves with healthy food. These are powerful practices that don’t just change how we feel physically — they shift the way we think, relate, and live.
And when shared with children and families, these practices become even more powerful. Why? Because they plant the seeds of peace, joy, and emotional intelligence early — helping grow more balanced, resilient humans who can co-create a better world.
Now, we’re ready to explore the next level of yoga practice — the part that works directly with the mind.
Yoga Isn’t Just for the Body — It’s for the Mind Too
Yoga means union. And when we teach yoga to kids and families, we’re not just teaching poses — we’re teaching connection. To breath. To emotion. To each other.
When we move our bodies through yoga, we naturally shift our mental and emotional state. If you’re slouched and closed off, your mind tends to follow — feeling dull or disconnected. But stand tall, breathe deeply, and open your chest… suddenly everything feels brighter. That’s yoga.
To create a lasting impact — especially for the little ones in our lives — we must also learn to work with the mind directly. This is where yoga becomes more than fun… it becomes transformative.
The Mind Shapes Our Reality (and Our Kids’ Futures)
The mind is the lens through which we see the world — and it’s especially impressionable in children. Teaching young people to notice and direct their thoughts helps shape a more compassionate, empowered generation.
We don’t need perfect conditions to feel joy. We need a perspective that sees light in the cracks, connection in the chaos, and kindness even in challenge.
And yes — the mind can be trained, like a puppy or a muscle. This is yoga for the mind.
Step One: Be Here Now
The Practice of Presence
The foundation of all mindfulness, meditation, and yoga — especially in kids — is presence.
Being fully here. In the moment. With your breath. With your body. With each other.
🧘 1. Breathe
Sit quietly and listen to your breath.
Inhale… exhale…
When thoughts come (they always do!), return gently to the breath.
This simple breath awareness is magic for children — helping them self-regulate, calm big emotions, and feel safe in their bodies.
☀️ 2. Pick a “Mindful Hour”
Choose one hour a day to practise full attention. For example: the hour after waking.
Open your eyes slowly. Notice the water on your skin in the shower. Taste your food with curiosity. Hear the morning sounds.
For families, this can become a shared ritual — a moment of slowness and gratitude before the rush.
🐾 3. Choose a “Mindful Activity”
Pick a regular activity — like walking the dog — and turn it into a mindfulness adventure.
Notice textures, sounds, smells, sights. Feel your steps. Feel your breath.
This playful habit rewires the brain to stay more grounded, joyful, and connected.
The Ripple Effect: Share Your Happiness
Happiness isn’t selfish — it’s service.
When we’re grumpy, our family feels it. When we’re joyful, that joy is contagious.
Imagine if children grew up knowing that their mood affects their community. Imagine if parents and teachers modelled calm, clarity, and care.
This is how yoga creates a better world — one breath, one moment, one smile at a time.
Try This Loving-Kindness Meditation
A beautiful one to teach kids too!
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Sit or lie down. Breathe into your heart space.
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Visualise yourself happy, healthy, fulfilled.
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Silently repeat:
“May I enjoy happiness and the source of happiness.”
Now extend the circle:
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A loved one
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A friend
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A stranger
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Someone you find difficult
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All beings
“May [name] enjoy happiness and the source of happiness.”
This softens the heart, builds compassion, and connects us beyond our differences. It’s powerful for children learning empathy and emotional balance.
What Is Meditation, Really?
Meditation is freedom — especially for children who feel overwhelmed or reactive.
Not freedom from life… but freedom within life. The ability to stay calm and centred no matter what’s happening.
Most of us are only happy when life goes “our way.” But what if we could teach our kids to stay joyful even when it doesn’t?
That’s what yoga and meditation give us. Inner resilience. Real power.
Why Fun & Play Bring Us to the Present
Joy is mindfulness in disguise.
When kids laugh, play, dance, or build a pillow fort — they are completely present. They’re not worrying about tomorrow or regretting yesterday.
This is why kids naturally love yoga when it’s fun, interactive, and social — because presence = joy.
Yoga Meditation Tools for the Whole Family
🧠 1. Thought Hunter
A fun and challenging game:
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Sit quietly and count from 1 to 10.
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If a thought appears, go back to 1.
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Can you make it to 10 without a single thought?
It’s harder (and funnier!) than it sounds. Great for focus, patience, and awareness.
🔇 2. Yoni Mudra – Turn Off the Senses
A magical sensory “shut down” to bring the attention inward:
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Sit tall.
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Gently block your ears (thumbs), eyes (index), nose (middle), lips (ring & pinky).
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Breathe deeply and loudly — then quieter and quieter — until you hear only silence inside.
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Tune into the quiet. Listen deeper than sound.
Children love this one! It feels like a superpower.
☁️ 3. Blue Sky Mind Visualisation
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Picture your inner peace as a vast, blue sky.
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Thoughts = clouds. They come and go.
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But the sky (your true nature) is always there.
This metaphor is easy for children to grasp and beautiful to return to during stress or overwhelm.
Why This All Matters
These aren’t just feel-good exercises. They’re tools for life.
For kids:
🧠 Emotional intelligence
💞 Empathy
🧘 Focus
💪 Resilience
For families:
🤝 Stronger relationships
😌 More harmony at home
🌍 A shared sense of purpose
Yoga and mindfulness ripple outward. They raise kind humans. They build communities. They heal the world.
What’s Next?
In the next part of our journey, we’ll explore how to apply these tools to your work habits, your relationships, and the bigger systems we’re part of — bringing yoga into the real world where it matters most.
But for now…
Breathe.
Smile.
And remember: joy is already inside you. All you have to do is notice it.
Want to learn how to share yoga and mindfulness with your children at home or with your students at school?
Join one of our Rainbow Kids Yoga Teacher Trainings today! Click here to sign up!
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